Anonymous
March 17, 2026 at 4:50:17 PM
do he/him lesbians include genderfluid lesbians or bigender lesbians. If so can you explain why you're against it??? Not attacking, just wondering ijbol
Replied on: March 18, 2026 at 1:14:18 AM
So personally, in short, my answer would be no? Bc to me, & I don't mean this to sound hateful ect, being a "he/him lesbian" would essentially just be a straight guy. A genderfluid/ect lesbian would be more confusing but to me, *if that were me*, I wouldn't call myself a lesbian? But I can 100% the struggle? To find a better fitting word, as I as I am writing this cannot think of one lol I do still struggle with my own sexual & gender orientation, & sometimes I think I may be a "lesbian" but would never call myself one as I am genderfluid (tho at this point I think I am leaning towards masc lables)
Hope this wasn't too rambly, just got off work lol, & I hope that semi answered your questions? {Again I truly don't ever wish to come off as defensive or attacking, so if there's a confusion in my wording lemme know 💔}
Hope you have a lovely day tho ‼️